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This Month, It’s All About You

It’s time to bring out your favorite toys… it’s Masturbation May! May marks the start of National Masturbation Month, a holiday that was born to challenge the stigma associated with solo sex. Masturbation isn’t just about pleasure. It’s one of the most empowering forms of self-care. It’s an opportunity to learn about your body and explore what feels good for you. Not to mention, the benefits speak for themselves: better sleep, reduced stress, relief from menstrual cramps…need we go on?


This Week’s Wisdom

You owe yourself the love that you so freely give to others.

What’s on BTBz Mind

Out of the Shadows: The Sex Ed We Deserve?


This past week marked the beginning of National Sex Ed Month—a reminder of how much misinformation still lingers in our schools, our relationships, and in our biggest sex organ: the brain. At Beyond the Beez, we believe sex ed isn’t just about safety; it’s about freedom.

Most of us grew up learning the bare minimum: don’t get pregnant, don’t get an STI, don’t have sex too soon. But where were the lessons on pleasure, boundaries, communication, or even how to feel at home in our bodies?

Sex ed should be liberating, not limiting. It should help you feel empowered to know your body, explore your desire, and build relationships based on respect and consent.  

It’s time we expand our education to include real conversations about gender, pleasure, power, and intimacy. Because everyone deserves tools to navigate their sexuality with confidence, curiosity, and care.

Our Simple Pleasure: Travel-Size Turn-On


I’m traveling this week, and it reminded me of one of the simplest, most underrated pleasures: lube.

Pleasure doesn’t go on pause just because you’re on the move—and lube is one of those small things that makes a big difference. It reduces friction, protects against microtears, and supports your body’s natural lubrication, which can shift with stress, hormones, jet lag, or just being in a new environment. It’s not about “fixing” anything—it’s about making everything feel smoother, softer, and more in tune with your body.

I bring the travel-size Uberlube: it’s lightweight and always passes the airport check.

The Naked Truth: Why Don’t We Talk About Sexual Grief?

 

There’s a quiet kind of grief that can come with health changes, aging, slipping into routines that start to feel… flat, and more.

Sexual grief doesn’t always show up as sadness. Sometimes it looks like numbness, frustration, or avoidance—the sense that we’ve lost touch with a version of our sexual self we once loved. But the truth is, it’s completely natural to grieve these inevitable changes.

The answer isn’t to “snap back.” It’s to sit with what’s shifted and softly make space for what’s still unfolding.

Whether you’re postpartum, post-heartbreak, post-burnout, or just in a different season—your pleasure story isn’t over. There’s no rush to the next chapter.

The Must-Have Product


Speaking of travel, need a go-to pleasure companion? Our Pixie is a small-but-mighty clitoral vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand.

Play for Your Pleasure


Have you heard about our card game, The Pleasure is Mine? With three categories—Learn, Think, Act—players are guided through lessons, reflection, and practical steps to experience new kinds of pleasure.

We’re sharing a sneak peek from the deck just for you, our newsletter readers. This week’s card is from the Learn category: Women who regularly masturbate can typically achieve more than one orgasm per session, and are more likely to orgasm with a partner.

Want more cards like this? Check out the full deck here.

Your Next Step to Pleasure



Love That Lasts

Are you and your partner ready to build a foundation for lifelong love and sexual fulfillment? Our intimacy bundle is your roadmap to a stronger, more passionate bond. Here’s what you get:

  • 3 sessions, lasting 1.5 hours each

  • A customized 3-item product box

  • A customized resource guide

  • 2 follow-up calls, 15 minutes each

 Session Breakdown:

1. Understanding Desire & Communication:

Topics covered include sexual intimacy, pleasure points, and sexual satisfaction.  

2. Exploring Connection & Attachment:

Topics covered include attachment styles, body language, timing, first impressions, vocal tone, pheromones, sexual confidence, and more.

3. Sustaining Intimacy & Passion:

Topics covered include resources, insights, and strategies to reignite passion in enduring love.

Invest in your relationship. Contact us to take the next step!

Unlocking Your Pleasure Potential


In the theme of sexual grief, your pleasure isn’t something you have to achieve—it’s something you can reconnect with.

Sometimes the path back to desire isn’t about adding more stimulation, but tuning into subtler signals: the way your breath changes, how your body holds tension, what sensations you crave or resist.

Pleasure lives in the present moment. And when we slow down enough to notice it—without judgment—we start to build real intimacy with ourselves.

This week, give yourself permission to be curious. Not about performance or goals, but about what feels good right now. Your body has its own language. The more you listen, the more it speaks.

It’s Time to Treat Yourself

As a thank you for being part of our community, newsletter subscribers get an exclusive:

  • 10% discount on our Intimacy bundle

  • 20% off a purchase of the featured must-have toy or card game.

Use the code: BeezNewsletter at checkout to claim the deal.

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