Celebrating March—and everything it stands for

BEYOND THE BEEZ is thrilled to be back in your inbox this month, and this is just the beginning of all the exciting things to come. With Women’s History Month just around the corner, there’s no better time to make our return.

At BTBz, empowerment is at the core of everything we do. We wouldn’t be where we are today without all of the incredible women who have paved the way for progress. While there’s still work to be done, this month is all about celebrating the remarkable achievements of women as we continue to strive for equality.

Looking for ways to celebrate this month? Here are a few ideas:

• Take some time to show appreciation to the women in your life who inspire you

• Check out local events in your area that honor Women’s History Month

• Volunteer or donate to organizations supporting women

• Support women-owned businesses. As a proud woman-owned business, we’d love for you to treat yourself to something special from our shop

This Month’s Buzz

Monthly Mantra

It may seem simple, but repeating positive statements can be a powerful way to shift your mindset and overcome negativity.

Say it with us: I deserve every opportunity that comes my way  

What’s on BTBz Mind

I want to address a topic that’s been generating some debate: the role of pornography in relationships. Recently, I came across a video where someone argued that partners shouldn’t watch porn, suggesting it could lead to infidelity. I respectfully disagree.

Research indicates that pornography use is associated with couple and sexual difficulties through increased cyber infidelity. However, other studies suggest that when used consensually and transparently, pornography can serve as a healthy avenue for exploring eroticism and fantasies within a relationship. It can introduce new ideas and enhance intimacy when both partners are comfortable and communicative about their consumption.

The key lies in open dialogue and mutual understanding. Rather than imposing restrictions based on fear, couples might benefit from discussing their boundaries and exploring resources like sex therapy or educational materials to strengthen their connection. Demonizing pornography isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution; instead, fostering trust and communication is essential.

Let’s move away from fear-based tactics and towards informed, consensual practices that prioritize the well-being of both partners.

Our Simple Pleasure

I just finished reading Emily Nagoski’s latest book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections, and I couldn’t wait to share it with you all.

You might remember her from her famous book Come As You Are. Interestingly, while writing that first book, Emily experienced a complete drop in her own sexual desire. Instead of ignoring it, she dove deep to find solutions, leading to this insightful follow-up.

One of the standout ideas she discusses is shifting our focus from just wanting sex (desire) to truly enjoying the experience (pleasure).

Emily emphasizes that the idea of “keeping the spark alive” is a myth. Many couples seek therapy because they believe a lack of spontaneous desire signals a problem. However, she explains that desire often follows pleasure. By centering pleasure, desire naturally emerges, leading to a more fulfilling and resilient sexual connection. Furthermore, we need to create contexts where it is easy to access pleasure (something that looks different for all of us.)

If you’re looking to rekindle intimacy or simply want a fresh take on maintaining a vibrant sex life, Come Together offers practical advice and relatable stories that make it a must-read.

The Naked Truth

Do You Ever Wonder How People Fall More in Love Over Time?

Psychologist Sara Nasserzadeh calls it Emergent Love— The kind of love that grows through life’s unexpected moments. Here are some examples in regard to how you and your partner: Handle challenges together, Support each other in tough times, Share unfiltered, real moments.

In short, falling more in love is a choice. Want to learn how to turn challenges into deeper connection? Join my Intimacy Workshop & strengthen your love. Respond to this email “LOVE” for more information.

The Must-Have Toy for March

Spring is the perfect time for new beginnings—so why not explore new sensations too? The XO Rose Gold is here to help with 15 vibrating patterns, 6 intensity settings, and two motors for simultaneous internal and external simulation.

Play for Your Pleasure

Have you heard about our card game, The Pleasure is Mine? With three categories—Learn, Think, Act—players are guided through lessons, reflection, and practical steps to experience new kinds of pleasure.

We’re sharing a sneak peek from the deck just for you, our newsletter readers. This month’s card is from the Act category: Use a towel or a belt as a “harness” to increase your depth by wrapping it around your partner’s waist and holding each side with your hands during sex.

Want more cards like this? Check out the full deck here.

Your Next Step to Pleasure

Introducing Our Intimacy Course: Love That Lasts

Are you and your partner ready to build a foundation for lifelong love and sexual fulfillment? Our intimacy bundle is your roadmap to a stronger, more passionate bond. Here’s what you get:

• 3 sessions, lasting 1.5 hours each

• A customized 3 item product box

• A customized resource guide

• 2 follow-up calls, 15 minutes each  

Session Breakdown:

1. Understanding Desire & Communication:

Topics covered include sexual intimacy, pleasure points, and sexual satisfaction.  

2. Exploring Connection & Attachment:

Topics covered include attachment styles, body language, timing, first impressions, vocal tone, pheromones, sexual confidence, and more.

3. Sustaining Intimacy & Passion:

Topics covered include resources, insights, and strategies to reignite passion in enduring love.

Invest in your relationship. Contact us to take the next step.

Unlocking Your Pleasure Potential

Navigating the ups and downs of relationships is essential to unlocking deeper pleasure and connection. Disagreements, miscommunications, or unmet expectations can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to derail your intimacy. Instead of viewing them as signs that your partner is “intolerable,” what if you paused to reflect.

Next time you’re triggered, try this:

💡 Ask yourself – Is this just a moment… or a pattern?

💡 Reconnect – Lean in with curiosity instead of spiraling.

💡 Reframe – Interruptions aren’t disconnection; they’re chances to rebuild.

By shifting how we approach these moments, we can unlock more pleasure in our relationships.  

An Exclusive Gift Just for You

As a thank you for being part of our community, newsletter subscribers get an exclusive:

• 10% discount on our Intimacy bundle

• 20% off a purchase of the toy of the month or card game.

Use the code: BeezNewsletter at checkout to claim the deal.