Do Not Disturb

In honor of National Sex Day on June 9th, we’re dedicating this week to talking about what “sex” means — and what it’s so often assumed to mean.

While sex absolutely does not equal penetration, it’s the definition many people default to. So in line with how this holiday is often interpreted, we’re focusing on the penetrative side of things.

From preventing post-sex UTIs to spotlighting our favorite dildo (hi, Pongo), we’re covering what goes in — and what that brings out. Because sex isn’t just about getting off. It’s about care, connection, and knowing your body. Let’s get into it.

This Month’s Buzz

This Week’s Wisdom

Say it with me now: “Pleasure is my birthright. I explore it with curiosity, not shame.”

Our Simple Pleasure

I used to be super prone to UTIs—but in the past two years (and I don’t want to jinx it) it seems as though I have finally escaped the constant streamline of cases. Here are two things I’ve changed.

1. My partner. I’ve heard the theory that being with the wrong person can make UTIs more frequent—and while there’s minimal proof, a part of me believes that. It’s based on the idea that your body knows things your brain doesn’t always catch up to, and sometimes it tries to tell you. And since being with my current boyfriend, they’ve been few and far between. Coincidence? Maybe. But when you’re feeling extra compatible, it’s a theory that’s kind of fun to believe in.

2. On a more legitimate note, I’ve also started taking UTI prevention supplements (not frequently enough to really reap the benefits.. but I’ve dabbled!). And having one on hand has been a game-changer if you’re super prone. I’ve tried the classic cranberry pills, and D-Mannose blends like Happy V or Utiva. As of today, I received Good Kitty’s UTI Biome Shield, which you can take daily or before sex. Stay tuned for a final review.

In general, it’s a small, proactive thing that gives me peace of mind and a little more control over my body.

The Naked Truth

Our AI Boyfriends The New Fantasy?

Now when it comes to partners… things may be changing. Studies have show that more people are turning to AI chats for intimacy, connection, and even sexting. So what does this say about modern desire? Is it lonely, liberating, or both?

For some, AI partners offer the perfect fantasy: no judgment, complete attention, endless patience. They’re always available.  For others, it highlights a hunger for connection in a world where vulnerability can feel risky.

But maybe the point isn’t about “real vs. fake” — maybe it’s about permission. AI companions don’t shame you. They don’t laugh at your fantasies or ask you to explain your kinks.

Despite our ultimate opinions on the concept, it may be a window into what we’re really craving: space to explore our desires without fear or apology.

The Must-Have Product

When it comes to product, this weeks highlight is Pogo by Unbound.

Smooth, sculptural, and designed with intention — the Silicone Dildo is your invitation to slow down, tune in, and feel deeply. Made with body-safe silicone and just the right amount of curve, it’s a perfect match for internal stimulation, partnered play, or exploring your anatomy on your own terms.

Pro tip: pair it with a water-based lube and a mirror to really get in touch with what feels good.

Play for Your Pleasure

Have you heard about our card game, The Pleasure is Mine? With three categories—Learn, Think, Act—players are guided through lessons, reflection, and practical steps to experience new kinds of pleasure.

We’re sharing a sneak peek from the deck just for you, our newsletter readers. This week’s card is from the Learn category: Women who regularly masturbate can typically achieve more than one orgasm per session, and are more likely to orgasm with a partner.

Want more cards like this? Check out the full deck here.

Your Next Step to Pleasure